I read every every comment, I unfortunately don’t always get the chance to respond as much as I would like to. When I get to the computer- I’m trying to put up new posts and lately i just haven’t had as much time as I would love to devote. So I feel horrid, that anyone would think that I don’t care about all of you who visit and read this blog. Maybe it’s because I don’t fancy myself a hair expert, I’ve shied away from talking too much about my hair (the good days or the bad hair days). I have made a semi-effort here, here and here to share products I like and my regimen. 
So when I saw this comment from Anonymous, it made me think about whether I’ve inadvertently overlooked something I should be and could easily be sharing. 
Why so little all the time on the hair products, styling methods, etc.??? It’s obvious readers are thirsty to see how you achieve your twistouts, etc. We’re not asking you to devote the ENTIRE website to this, but DANG, at least throw us a bone. 
Answer: Anyways, so here goes. I gave a similar spiel on Instagram, but just wanted to share it again here.
Here’s the deal on my defined twists- start w/ conditioned and wet hair. For each individual twist, I use pea size amount of Shea moisture curl enhancing smoothie + small pump (not a full pump) of organix coconut milk mousse. If hair feels dry, spray water- we want this sucker wet. Try to keep both strands about the same size. I don’t prescribe to any particular twisting technique, but I tend to twist more on the tight side rather than relaxed or loose. While a gel might give firmer hold- I find the mousse gives a healthy bouncy hold and hair looks fuller. Also my ends might get a little extra love with argan/ coconut oil and I trim a lil’ everytime I twist- I’m not going for length so doesn’t bother me. Oh- one last thing, the better your hair comes out after the wash, the better the twists- so your shampoo/co-wash/ condition steps are just as important. I had a bad conditioner experience and my twists looked dry and dead. 
I hope I’ve been able to address any hair questions and I appreciate all you guys patience with me and that u keep coming back- means the world. I know I’ve got so many bigger ideas for this space and if I could only ind the time. Thanks to all my extra special and extra loyal readers.


  1. Jennifer S.

    April 23, 2014 at 3:27 am Reply

    You always have the BEST hair!!!!


  2. Monique

    April 20, 2014 at 9:23 pm Reply

    * just checked out your old post and I see you let it air dry. 😉

  3. Monique

    April 20, 2014 at 9:14 pm Reply

    Thanks for sharing more info about your hair. I had dread locks for 9 years and chopped them 2 years ago, your fro is certainly an inspiration. I'm def going to try your twist out method I often end up with frizzy twist outs. Do you sit under the dryer at all? By the way you truly are a gem…intelligent, witty, stylish and beautiful.

  4. G

    April 20, 2014 at 12:20 pm Reply

    Thanks for the feedback regarding your hair. It's gorgeous. Love the vibe of your blog.

  5. Fredreca Adams

    April 20, 2014 at 11:01 am Reply

    You have very beautiful hair. I always admire it.

  6. Honey B.

    April 19, 2014 at 5:24 am Reply

    In the words of Rachel Zoe and in her voice too, bananas. Your twist out is insane. I love your hair , it is beautiful. Thanks for sharing.

  7. Shon

    April 18, 2014 at 3:44 pm Reply

    Take your time…family, responsibilities, etc., come first. Thanks for sharing whatever and however you share. I appreciate your time.

    Happy Easter weekend!

  8. Millz

    April 18, 2014 at 11:49 am Reply

    Thank You Anonymous…all the hair voices in my head can finally calm down..looking forward to some hairformation ideas and then some 🙂

  9. My Kurves

    April 18, 2014 at 12:19 am Reply

    I Love your hair and this post. I would only add a short disclaimer. . . since not all of us have the same hair texture, Ladies should not expect the same results. Just an FYI. . .

  10. kamanda

    April 17, 2014 at 9:46 pm Reply

    Love your hair and the twists definition

  11. Adeola (The Mane Captain)

    April 17, 2014 at 8:25 pm Reply

    wow, talk about definition! I almost drooled! you didn't specify how long you keep the twists in for.
    The question from the reader sounds desperate, lol!
    thanks for sharing your tips though

  12. Ashley Ellis

    April 17, 2014 at 7:34 pm Reply

    Your hair is truly amazing! I'm glad that you shared a little bit more about your routine. I understand where you are coming from completely.

  13. Amy Tributetothestyle

    April 17, 2014 at 6:31 pm Reply

    Give me your hair….. Pleaseeeeee!

  14. foreveryololife

    April 17, 2014 at 6:29 pm Reply

    Thank you for sharing this. I went natural about two years ago but I just started twisting last week. I haven't mastered the technique yet but getting there.

  15. Chinye

    April 17, 2014 at 3:42 pm Reply

    Share whatever makes you comfortable! I'm glad you gave us an insight into what works for your hair and I love your blog as it is.

  16. Anonymous

    April 17, 2014 at 1:23 pm Reply

    Yes honey!

  17. Anonymous

    April 17, 2014 at 12:55 pm Reply

    I think a video ie what they asking. Your twist look different and last longer.

  18. Tonya

    April 17, 2014 at 12:34 pm Reply

    yes, very helpful!
    and OMgoodness, your hair is GORGEOUS!!

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